MONDAY (4.13.2026) Your daily guide to New York City nightlife programming. UPTOWN SUITE: "Femmes & Friends" standup comedy (7pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: Movie night (8pm) TOOLBOX: Bingo feat. Virgo Rising (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE VERS: Trivia feat. Christopher Metzger-Timson (7pm);Pianist Andre Catrini (9pm) RITZ: Nia Maya & Diana Taylor (7pm);Jayde Mugler &Continue reading "Monday (4.13.2026)"
X-Rayed Sex: Call Your Daddy “Daddy”
By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and sexual etiquette. I recently turned 55 years old. So according to gay ageism and slang, I would easily be considered a “daddy”. Well,Continue reading "X-Rayed Sex: Call Your Daddy “Daddy”"
Sunday (4.12.2026)
SUNDAY (4.12.2026) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX TOOLBOX: "Music Bingo" (5pm) SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE RISE: Brunch feat. Paige Turner & Nomi Sas (10:30am, 12:45pm & 2:55pm); Chicky Gorgina & Marti Gould Cummings (10:30pm) LA PULPERIA HK: Brunch feat.Continue reading "Sunday (4.12.2026)"
Saturday (4.11.2026)
SATURDAY (4.11.2026) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX: Virgo Rising (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: DJ dance party (11pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE RISE: Brunch feat. Izzy Uncut and / or Skye Walker and / orContinue reading "Saturday (4.11.2026)"
Friday (4.10.2026)
FRIDAY (4.10.2026) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX 4WEST LOUNGE: Drag Race (8pm) HAMILTON HALL: Drag Race / Vivacious (8pm) LE CHEILE: Drag Race / Elise Navy-Dad (8pm) AT THE WALLACE: Drag Race / Janae SaisQuoi (8phshm) DIVE 106: Drag Race / Blacc Cherry (8pm) TOOLBOX: DragContinue reading "Friday (4.10.2026)"
Thursday (4.9.2026)
THURSDAY (4.9.2026) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife events. UPTOWN / BRONX HARLEM NIGHTS: "Uptown Stripdown" burlesque feat. Stella Nova, Queerly Femmetastic, Chief Tuckahoe, Fem Appeal, Veronika Hazard & Bodacious B (8pm) UES BAR: Bingo or Karaoke feat. AndrogyNY (8pm) TOOLBOX: "Throwback Thursday" (9pm) SUITE: Moxy Cillin with Scarlett D. Von’Du (10pm) 4WEST LOUNGE:Continue reading "Thursday (4.9.2026)"
On Point With: Tim Murray
Having recently documented his first ever standup tour in a hilarious reality miniseries, comic / social media sensation / witch enthusiast Tim Murray is gearing up to work the crowd once more. Thotyssey: Tim, hello! Thank for chatting today! Did you do anything festive for Easter? Tim Murray: I'm wearing a brightly colored shirt andContinue reading "On Point With: Tim Murray"
Wednesday (4.8.2026)
WEDNESDAY (4.8.2026) Your daily guide to New York nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX: Trivia feat. Elle Barto (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE RISE: Magnus Riise with Kris Cherry, Axel Rosencrantz, Mel Lennon & Demillion (7pm);Bootsie LeFaris, Lexington Banks, Pattaya Hart,Continue reading "Wednesday (4.8.2026)"
Tuesday (4.7.2026)
TUESDAY (4.7.2026) Your daily guide to NYC nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Eli Northrup campaign fundraiser feat. Marti Gould Cummings, Moxy Cillin & Blacc Cherry (7pm);Karaoke hosted by Moxy Cillin (9pm) TOOLBOX: Karaoke hosted by Matzah Belle Soup (9pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: "Strip Teaz" (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE RISE: Bingo feat. Paige TurnerContinue reading "Tuesday (4.7.2026)"
On Point With: Kimmi Hall-Dat
As she's serving fans across every corner of the Tri-State, we have lots of lots of love to give Kimmi Hall-Dat! Thotyssey: Kimmi, Hello! Happy Easter! Are you wearing a festive bonnet today, lol? Kimmi Hall-Dat: Happy Easter! I'm actually getting ready to get into a bunny suit and surprise some kids for an EasterContinue reading "On Point With: Kimmi Hall-Dat"
Thotyssey Turns 10!
I've been slacking on making a bigger deal of this, but TBH I'm still kind of in shock. I started this out on a whim, and kind of as a joke, as I was trying to figure my shit out and 10 years of daily posts later, here we are. I have stuff planned forContinue reading "Thotyssey Turns 10!"
Monday (4.6.2026)
MONDAY (4.6.2026) Your daily guide to New York City nightlife programming. UPTOWN SUITE: "Femmes & Friends" standup comedy (7pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: Movie night (8pm) TOOLBOX: Bingo feat. Virgo Rising (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE 54 BELOW: Marilyn Maye (7pm) RITZ: Nia Maya & Diana Taylor (7pm);Jayde Mugler & DJ Eric Abobo (10pm)Continue reading "Monday (4.6.2026)"
On Point With: Chad Rangoon
Costume Character King Chad Rangoon has got us fully gooped this April. Thotyssey: Chad, hello! Happy Easter! Any bunny or bonnet looks planned for today?Chad Rangoon: Lol, that'd be fun! Sadly, unlike Jesus, Bonnie is not risen and he will not be coming twice… at least not today. Yes, you actually have an onstage rabbitContinue reading "On Point With: Chad Rangoon"
Sunday (4.5.2026)
SUNDAY (4.5.2026) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX TOOLBOX: "Music Bingo" (5pm) SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE RISE: Brunch feat. Paige Turner & Nomi Sas (10:30am, 12:45pm & 2:55pm); Chicky Gorgina & Marti Gould Cummings (10:30pm) LA PULPERIA HK: Brunch feat.Continue reading "Sunday (4.5.2026)"
Saturday (4.4.2026)
SATURDAY (4.4.2026) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke feat. Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX: Virgo Rising (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: DJ dance party (11pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE RISE: Brunch feat. Izzy Uncut and / or Skye Walker and / orContinue reading "Saturday (4.4.2026)"
Friday (4.3.2026)
FRIDAY (4.3.2026) Your daily guide to New York and New Jersey nightlife programming. UPTOWN / BRONX 4WEST LOUNGE: Drag Race (8pm) HAMILTON HALL: Drag Race / Vivacious (8pm) LE CHEILE: Drag Race / Elise Navy-Dad (8pm) AT THE WALLACE: Drag Race / Janae SaisQuoi (8phshm) DIVE 106: Drag Race / Blacc Cherry (8pm) TOOLBOX: DragContinue reading "Friday (4.3.2026)"
On Point With: Josh Steers
On the DJ lineup for a big anniversary of one of NYC's most popular parties this weekend, Josh Steers shares his journey from the Cock to Mexico City to Battle Hymn. [Photo: Rodrigo Álvarez] Thotyssey: Josh, hello! Thanks for chatting with us today! How was your month of March? Josh Steers: Hey back at youContinue reading "On Point With: Josh Steers"
Thursday (4.2.2026)
THURSDAY (4.2.2026) Your daily guide to New York queer nightlife events. UPTOWN / BRONX UES BAR: Bingo or Karaoke feat. AndrogyNY (8pm) TOOLBOX: "Throwback Thursday" (9pm) SUITE: Moxy Cillin with Catrina Lovelace (10pm) 4WEST LOUNGE: "Trappy Hour" (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE FRAMES: Game night feat. Shane Cherry (5pm) LAURIE BEECHMAN THEATRE: NickContinue reading "Thursday (4.2.2026)"
On Point With: Vita Vanitea
Spring is the season for this drag artist to bloom: the Hong Kong Hottie herself, Vita Vanitea! [Cover photo: @beyondyouphotography] Thotyssey: Vita, hello! Happy April Fools Day! Did you pull, or fall for, any pranks today lol? Vita Vanitea: Happy April Fools! No, I didn't pull any pranks... but I did fall for a coupleContinue reading "On Point With: Vita Vanitea"
Wednesday (4.1.2026)
WEDNESDAY (4.1.2026) Your daily guide to New York nightlife. UPTOWN / BRONX SUITE: Karaoke hosted by Victoria Chase (9pm) TOOLBOX: Trivia feat. Elle Barto (9pm) LAMBDA LOUNGE: DJ dance party (10pm) HELL'S KITCHEN / MIDTOWN / TIMES SQUARE MILLIRON STUDIOS: Open mic hosted by Danielle Cardona feat. Jen Urban, Christopher Ambrose & more (6pm) 54 BELOW:Continue reading "Wednesday (4.1.2026)"
Thotyssey 